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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 15 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I have to say that the men who say less and just make jokes about the absurdity of anyone coming to gay men for advice on vagina come across as much more effective than those who jump right to ranting angrily about how “you’re not gay” and “women aren’t men.” We know. And the men making the jokes know. But AGB is overall a pretty light sub and humor works way better in an environment like that. And combativeness is more likely to drive away people who otherwise agree with you on the core facts. Plus the jokes had me howling. Vagina cadet LMAO.

Even the succinct responses about the poster seeming lost or asking what they expected are more effective. Especially in the cumulative. Just my thoughts, anyway.

[–]JulienMayfair 13 insightful - 9 fun13 insightful - 8 fun14 insightful - 9 fun -  (1 child)

I always go to r/AskJewish when I want to find the best pork BBQ recipes ;-)

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 13 insightful - 9 fun13 insightful - 8 fun14 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

I’ve heard the kind and inclusive people over at r/AskVegans have the best steakhouse recommendations.