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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Casual reminder that this woman is a well-established heterosexual queer-jacking narcissistic groomer.

She is a professional provocateur who wants us to pay attention to her more than anything. I suggest we ignore this creep. There is nothing to see here other than a case study in narcissism.

With her, the bigger story is all of the supposedly respectable people and organizations who promote her despite her being the walking red flag she is.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

She's a contemptuous individual. She's also an exemplar of the abused-woman-to-trans-handmaiden pipeline. She had a very abusive and dysfunctional youth, from what I've read, and appears very psychologically vulnerable to abusive men, such as her AGP husband. He strategically 'came out' shortly after her son started identifying as trans, so she had no way to push back without alienating her child (her son has since 're-transitioned' to 'non-binary', which I can only assume is his best attempt to save himself from medical transition without alienating his parents).

It's interesting to track how her appearance and general demeanour has degraded since taking on the role of transactivist/ally. She reminds me a lot of Grace Lavery's wife.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Are you aware of any instance where you’ve heard the story from the husband’s perspective? I’ve only heard it from hers (and across various media), and I actually would be interested in hearing his perspective. I do not get abused woman vibes from her at all. I get histrionic abuser who plays the victim vibes from her. More puppet master than handmaiden. I would not be surprised to learn she had an abusive and dysfunctional childhood though.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I've found it's very rare to get the AGP perspective. It's like they know they won't come off well and need their spouse to do PR for them.

I think AJK has managed to twist a shitty abusive situation into one that allows her to channel her anger and victimhood into martyrdom and Political power. I see from her Twitter thread she was awarded the Order of Ottawa recently.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mean are there any examples of the husband courting the press? Or is it always or mainly Amanda?

Or is he merely a prop in his wife’s full-on career as a gender influencer provocateur? I still don’t see any evidence that AJK is a victim of spousal abuse and that this is a coping mechanism. And there is absolutely a type of woman who seeks out or creates a trans partner to use as a prop in their own self-promotion. Similar to Jazz Jennings’s mom and family.

I believe this is the same woman who wrote an op-Ed in The NY Times or WaPo about how children should be exposed to kink. It’s not just about coping with having an AGP husband. She reminds me of a Meghan Markle type narcissist, LGBTQ edition with Munchausen’s by proxy edges.