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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Casual reminder that this woman is a well-established heterosexual queer-jacking narcissistic groomer.

She is a professional provocateur who wants us to pay attention to her more than anything. I suggest we ignore this creep. There is nothing to see here other than a case study in narcissism.

With her, the bigger story is all of the supposedly respectable people and organizations who promote her despite her being the walking red flag she is.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

She's a contemptuous individual. She's also an exemplar of the abused-woman-to-trans-handmaiden pipeline. She had a very abusive and dysfunctional youth, from what I've read, and appears very psychologically vulnerable to abusive men, such as her AGP husband. He strategically 'came out' shortly after her son started identifying as trans, so she had no way to push back without alienating her child (her son has since 're-transitioned' to 'non-binary', which I can only assume is his best attempt to save himself from medical transition without alienating his parents).

It's interesting to track how her appearance and general demeanour has degraded since taking on the role of transactivist/ally. She reminds me a lot of Grace Lavery's wife.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Are you aware of any instance where you’ve heard the story from the husband’s perspective? I’ve only heard it from hers (and across various media), and I actually would be interested in hearing his perspective. I do not get abused woman vibes from her at all. I get histrionic abuser who plays the victim vibes from her. More puppet master than handmaiden. I would not be surprised to learn she had an abusive and dysfunctional childhood though.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I've found it's very rare to get the AGP perspective. It's like they know they won't come off well and need their spouse to do PR for them.

I think AJK has managed to twist a shitty abusive situation into one that allows her to channel her anger and victimhood into martyrdom and Political power. I see from her Twitter thread she was awarded the Order of Ottawa recently.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mean are there any examples of the husband courting the press? Or is it always or mainly Amanda?

Or is he merely a prop in his wife’s full-on career as a gender influencer provocateur? I still don’t see any evidence that AJK is a victim of spousal abuse and that this is a coping mechanism. And there is absolutely a type of woman who seeks out or creates a trans partner to use as a prop in their own self-promotion. Similar to Jazz Jennings’s mom and family.

I believe this is the same woman who wrote an op-Ed in The NY Times or WaPo about how children should be exposed to kink. It’s not just about coping with having an AGP husband. She reminds me of a Meghan Markle type narcissist, LGBTQ edition with Munchausen’s by proxy edges.

[–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Sure lady! You and your gross husband can get the fuck away from me. Don't care what I have to call ya to make that happen. (You are straight though) or at the very least just another straight-passing boring bisexual because you married a fucking MAN. (Me too, no hate)

We don't care if you pretend to like real women sweetie. You are not a lesbian 😢😢😢

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's interesting how frequently their usernames tell more of the truth:

MavenofMayhem

archive.today, 2020 and now:

15 Dec 2020: https://archive.ph/yPLQh

Today: https://archive.ph/8LNLc

So this bio where she grooming-ly proclaims herself "your...mom" (just like another colossal groomer creep with the initials JS) is newer.

Your nonbinary internet mom. Award-winning advocate, bestselling author, speaker, trauma survivor, pretend fancy person, mom to 4. Memoir 2 out in 2023 They/She

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Imagine that fuck knuckle being your mother. Kid had no hope.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

[–]spanishprofanity 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

i'd be bitter and posting twitter threads in which i play "you don't know my life" games if my husband turned out like hers.

shoulda divorced his ass when you had the chance, lady!

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This might actually be a case where she took the lead on grooming a trans identity into her husband and then children. She appears to be the one pushing for spotlight on their story. The “mom-ager” of sorts. I think every time I’ve heard of this family, it’s from her perspective. I don’t know enough about the husband to say, but it’s possible he’s somewhat of a victim in this, though one with his own unclean hands, of course.

I just can’t shake the vibes of Munchausen’s by trans proxy with this woman.

[–]Hannibalboy93 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That one craves a special little gold star for HER special little delusion, imagine going down in history as a Mx moron. She wants to be oppressed so badly, and they always say TERF, like oooooooh scary.............. uwu.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's funny how much these "queer" types get angry at being called straight in any way.

Had an old online acquaintance who was bisexual but was eyeball deep in the queer stuff. He was so offended over me saying that when he was with a woman it was a heterosexual relationship.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Still trying to figure out why they have such an hard time being called straight

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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