Homophobia"How do same-sex attracted children work? That seems dodgy." and more - r/transgenderUK ponders the existence of same-sex attraction

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[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

How do same-sex attracted children work? That seems dodgy.

They sound like a clueless and even kinda conspiratorial straight person to me, who views same-sex attraction as some paraphilia caused by childhood trauma or something- hence the "dodgy" comment. Surprise- embracing the trans identity didn't make them more understanding of "queerness" or whatnot. They just increased their social clout but stayed just as ignorant and closeminded as your average homophobe who at least doesn't pretend to be so open-minded and enlightened.

In reality, same-sex attraction is as you have experienced yourself. Developing at very similar times in life to opposite-sex attraction with parallel movements and emotions, but still subject to irrational fear and stigma from society as if it was simply a product of corrupt socialization.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I, myself didn't really fear homosexuality as a child in such a way to drive me away from it. It was more like I had a default expectation that I would be "normal" and didn't comprehend that i wasn't until much later. The social default was straight male grow up have 2.5 children etc... I grew up in the 80s so internet technically existed but no one had it. The first time I had internet in my house was by having my computer dial into my high school and it was text based. So to be gay I had to migrate through to the other side of even comprehending what sexuality was.

This is why transgenderism is so absolutely different. They only exist by taking on a social stereotype of something they know exist. Gays can live in a 100% hetero society and then still come out with the same conclusion. Like if you put a gay person into a hypothetical society where only straight people existed they would still realize they were gay in some aspect. If you were to take a transgender person and have them grow up in a hypothetical society where only 1 sex exists, there is absolutely no chance they spontaneously start thinking they are an opposite sex.