r/gaytransguys - What are some trans related red flags when talking to cis men?

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[–]Criticallacitirc[S] 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

"Personally, I don’t sleep with men who don’t include their own gender and pronouns on their profiles."

Haha I purposely don't have those filled out, love that the aidens see that as a transphobic dog whistle.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

"Personally, I don’t sleep with men"

FTFY

[–]HelloMomo 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Haha I purposely don't have those filled out

Same

[–]Criticallacitirc[S] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Aggro gatekeepers: this type of Cis guy hates seeing any trans people on “his” dating apps. He pretends to want you so he can prove to you that you don’t belong in “his” community looking for partners among “his” pool of potential lovers. These guys can get physically aggro and/or verbally abusive. You can try to draw them out of their fake masks before meet up. These guys are dangerous irl and they are the reason why you always meet any hookup in a public place. It’s not your fault for not seeing they are Tbashers." -this never happens

[–]reluctant_commenter 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Closeted DL guys- they don’t see trans men as men and try to alleviate their own homo-shame by telling themselves “I’m not really gay bc this is basically a woman right?” These guys almost always go out of their way to make certain you know they think of you as not real.

Nope, those are opposite-sex-attracted men. You're real, all right-- real women.

Using very obviously feminine coded terms for your anatomy, especially if you've made it clear you hate it. Stuff like "clit" or "pussy."

Those aren't "feminine coded" terms, those terms refer to female anatomy.

[–]Athelhilda4Questioning 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The fact that these women genuinely believe that the men they’re hooking up with are gay is pathetic. They’re being taken advantage of by heterosexual/bisexual men and they don’t even realize it.

[–]Hannibalboy93 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

They hate even the ones interested in them muhahahahaha

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's because they're raging narcicists who base their perceptions of the relationships they seek on media they consume.

[–]MoutonelectriqueBland Straight ♀ 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Pretty much says outright he doesn't see you as a man.

Love, nobody sees you as a man. Because you are not a man and you know it.

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

RIP Snappy, I AM THE NEW GOD!

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