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[–]reluctant_commenter 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

The transwoman in this story not only has internalized homophobia, but externalizes homophobia like there's no tomorrow. If I'm understanding correctly, he ("she") thinks his boyfriend is gay NOT because his boyfriend is dating a man, but because of stupid stereotypes about "being a REAL MAN" like this:

I told her that I liked getting my nipples played with (i feel awkward writing this lmfao) and she looked at me really weird and asked if I was gay. I told her that I was straight, and that it just feels good.

I told her that I usually don't cum from head, but I still enjoy it. She accused me of being gay again

However, after this she would sometimes ask me if I was "sure that i wanted to be a man", since I "liked taking dick".

Just incredibly homophobic, all around. I don't have the energy to read the rest of this dumpster fire.

Bonus points: a comment about "internalized transphobia" has almost 200 upvotes while the only mention of "internalized homophobia" is buried at the bottom of the page.

[–]HelloMomo 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I usually don't cum from head

Is that a stereotype? My knowledge on the topic is minimal and I'd like to to stay that way. But like... I have never heard a word about any category of men by orientation who don't like blowjobs.

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Most people, even those who claim to be good at it, suck at sucking dick. It took until I was 22 or 23 (I forget which) to actually cum from head. Up until then, I hated it because I would get performance anxiety due to being expected to enjoy something I knew wouldn't feel good. It wasn't until I got good head for the first time that things changed and I could finally relax knowing it wasn't me- it was the other guy.

But yeah, a lot of guys don't cum from head.