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[–]Kai_Decadence 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I'm very aware of this Shapeshifter person because he played a part in cancelling TT Exulansic's YouTube channel when she did an analysis/commentary on the reality of his SRS and he didn't like hearing the truth so he flagged her channel and got others to join in. I'm sure it wasn't the only thing that got her completely terminated but it was the first.

Anyway it's clear that he was sold a lie and is seeing the error of his ways. His story is sad but it is what it is. I think it's great that he's owning his own life choices and not fully blaming others, no one force him to get SRS after all. But he's taking self-responsibility and that's noble of him. What's more noble is that he's spreading the message to others, warning the youth to not go through with it, that they will regret it as much as he does and this is important so I'm thankful that he's being upfront and honest about it.

That said, I didn't watch the interview because I'll be honest, I can't listen to Blaire's fake "woman" voice for prolonged periods of time but I saw a breakdown of it and I think it's hilarious how Blaire really tried to push that he and Shapeshifter are not the same when they are. Both are effeminate gay men though one had the snip and came to his senses, the other is still living in denial. And don't give me the "Blaire says he's male" argument, it doesn't mater that he acknowledges himself as male when he's still insisting that he's anything but a man and "transwoman" doesn't count, women are not a subclass of their own sex and "transwoman" implies they are a kind of woman which they're not. The day Blaire accepts what he truly and stops callimg himself anything but a man is when my view on him will change but as is, he's just as delusional as the other trans-identified men as far as I'm concerned.

Back to Shapeshifter, I wish him luck. I hope he has a good support network who's helping him out try to live life one step at a time because I can't imagine living that way knowing I can't go back and undo what I did to an important part of my body...

[–]pacmanla 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Great comment & analysis on Blaire White. I remember someone posting a video of him back some years ago. He still presented as male & was just an effeminate young gay man. He stated how tough it was for feminine gay men in the gay dating market. I've heard a lot of feminine gay men say this & state that's why a lot of HSTS trans identified individuals think identifying as a woman would be easier. I honestly don't see that, & Blaire stated after his "transition", he was essentially passed around by closeted bisexual men who were ashamed of him.

[–]Kai_Decadence 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That person was more than likely me haha. You're talking about this video right? I try to share that video whenever I find it relevant because it's so annoying how people think Blaire is any different than the average effeminate gay man who was struggling just as much as any other feminine gay man (myself included). He was another gender nonconforming gay man who was strugglign in the gay dating scene where majority gay men are attracted to masculine guys and frustrated, he deluded himself into thinking he must be a woman and felt that if he trooned out, he'd be able to attract more guys.

And the truth of the matter is this. Blaire was/is still attracting the same kinda guys he was attracting when he was not trans-identified. I'm confident in this because I don't call myself "trans" and I still attract the closet-case bisexuals who claim they're only into "trans" identified men. These men know there's no such thing as "transwomen" and all they care about is that the man presents himself in a non-masculine way, the fake moobs are just a bonus but I don't have any and they still were trying to get at me.

And yeah before Blaire's current boyfriend, his last two were closet-case bisexuals. One literally made him hide in the closet when his parents came to visit him at his college dorm (he admitted to this in one of his old livestreams, he got drunk and emotional).