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[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Back when I was lost in the sauce of the gender woo woo? I entertained the idea, but I'm glad there was no follow through because reality would have hit me like a ton of bricks in the bedroom when the entire thing reminded me of my corrective rape. Even the push afterwards from my mother about the possibility of butch women or transmen. It absolutely would not be a relationship in which I was enthusiastically consenting.

The biggest thing about "passing" is that everything is staged. Like a fat chick using angled shots and contour, it's harder not to notice in the real world where the sun is shining. Drag queens used to crack jokes about "transgender friendly lighting" all the time for a reason.

I agree that GAMPs are most likely a type of bisexual, mostly since the same guys who seem to be into TS/TV are also into twinks.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Back when I was lost in the sauce of the gender woo woo? I entertained the idea, but I'm glad there was no follow through because reality would have hit me like a ton of bricks in the bedroom when the entire thing reminded me of my corrective rape. Even the push afterwards from my mother about the possibility of butch women or transmen. It absolutely would not be a relationship in which I was enthusiastically consenting.

Right. I mean I'll be honest. Back when I too was lost in the gender woo sauce before I peak transed. I thought about whether if I could have sex with and/or date a trans-identified woman so I tried looking at adult content of "FTM" to see if it did anything for me and there was this one woman who I thought was attractive on the surface. Again, testosterone is a hell of a drug and it can make some women "pass" in certain scenarios and with this woman, I will admit that if I saw her on the street, I wouldn't have thought she was a woman. Of course I didn't hear how this woman sounds when she speaks normally so there's that but appearance-wise, I thought she was attractive until she showed her vagina. I try to sit through it to really test myself and she was zooming into it a lot. Overall I was turned off, the thought of going anywhere near it just made my stomach churn.

So I try another video to see what these "phalluses" look like. Again find a "FTM" who had that done to them and it didn't make any difference. It looked... Unsettling and the fact that at the end of the day it's not real penis put the finally put an end to that chapter, I learned that I couldn't look past it thereby reaffirming that I was a gay man and not a bisexual who can be attracted to hyper masculinized women.

It absolutely would not be a relationship in which I was enthusiastically consenting.

Right there with you. It just wouldn't be fulfilling in the long run, you'd always crave wanting to be with a man because of course we would, we're gay lol.

The biggest thing about "passing" is that everything is staged. Like a fat chick using angled shots and contour, it's harder not to notice in the real world where the sun is shining. Drag queens used to crack jokes about "transgender friendly lighting" all the time for a reason.

Very true. There's also that old Drag Queen saying of "We don't do daytime drag" lol.

I agree that GAMPs are most likely a type of bisexual, mostly since the same guys who seem to be into TS/TV are also into twinks.

Yep. This is what I look like from time to time, I have no cosmetic work done to myself and I would still get these "GAMP" bisexual men hitting me up and wanting to meet me even when I tell them I'm ot a trans-identified man. Heck, I still would get these guys when I look like this So nah, call if "GAMP" but it's still bisexuality at the end of the day, just a "type" of bisexuality where the guy prefers femininity regardless of sex.