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[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I was a pre-teen and just randomly I thought “I wish I was a gay man”. I didn’t even think that was possible; I’m 23 now and that’s exactly what I am

Here is a comment from KiwiFarms, which I am sure will not sit well with some people here but it kind of rings true to my own lived experience:

I honestly don't know why women (it's mostly inexperienced girls, let's be honest) fantasize about the gays so much. I've been called a fag hag plenty of times, thanks, just because I have gay relatives I'm close to. But being close to them meant getting an uncensored view of gay males and their shenanigans. I want nothing to do with their unfettered male sexuality. Some of them are very, very attractive at first glance, not going to lie, but being sober of mind around them for any length of time will cure you of pining for them.

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I mean, I could (and do privately) say the same thing about women in general, so it all evens out lmao

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Fair enough...

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I was a pre-teen and just randomly I thought “I wish I was a gay man”.

I bet if someone digs this case up they're going to find some yaoi/mlm shipping shit behind said "random" desire to become a gay man.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Awful lot of 'repressed memory syndrome' here.

Also, "I don't want to have kids and I liked living without gendered restrictions. Clearly I am really a boy"

[–]LesbianManiactransphobic lol 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"I told myself as a child life would be so much easier if I was a boy'" That broke my heart.