In one of her previous posts on r/lifeafternarcissism, she details how her ex-girlfriend was "clingy" and it took about 4 times to break up. In one of her posts on r/bisexual, she documents how sex with women never really felt good. She also has a history of alcoholism and two of her "lesbian" exes are now with men permanently.

Haha, I read this description of her before I clicked through to the thread and had a feeling I knew who you were talking about. Yep! I recognise her username from spending some time on r/bisexual a few years ago. Now she's a trans man because....of course she is. She's not got a ducking clue who or what she is. As you say - Cluster B vibes!

I wonder if her boyfriend sensed any red flags. Like, saying you're a lesbian for a decade and then claiming you have absolutely no attraction to women is surely a bit of a red flag for getting into a relationship and gives a glimpse into what the future might be like with that person. Sure enough, she's dumped her boyfriend after 4 years because she's decided that she's actually a man now. I remember she used to post about how amazing her boyfriend was. If he really was that amazing, she's ruined a perfectly good relationship. Identity disturbances are a hell of a thing. Maybe she'll cycle all the way around to straight trans men next? 🤦🏻‍♀️

All that aside though, I find it kind of scary the way I hear 'gay' trans men come to the conclusion that they are indeed trans men. It's like: Oh, I liked playing as male video game characters and I write about and relate to gay male fictional characters. Well, that must mean one thing! Better get on the testosterone! 😬