I'm not wrong that giving lots of power to what it is out of your control is unwise and only causing you grief. Also you been very emotional. Your question was quite strange and can be seen as provocation. Normal then to have sarcastic defensive answer by a lesbian after you have accused the category of being bad and scary lol I mean sure there are assholes, but the attack on the different or someone who doesn't fit the standard of a group it isnt surely a lesbian thing, but an human toxic behaviour, and minorities aren't free from toxic human inclinations. But it is aburd that you relly thought this was specifically lesbian thing and that lesbians would be afraid of others like them. The greek lady just gave you an answer a normal lesbian would ( that are men the ones by whom women in general are scared, not others women). Her sarcasm and bitter answer were just consequences of having a bisexual making negative generalization over her category. Normal reaction