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[–]hufflepuff-poet 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I don't understand the need of finding men repulsive to be a lesbian. That's such a strong word for humans you're clearly not into... It gives them way too much credit.

This. When I first came out at 15, I wasn't repulsed by guys. I just wasn't attracted to them and was attracted to women. Now I am dick-repulsed but I think that has more to do with forcing myself to be sexual with them despite my body not enjoying it or wanting it and now I have a kneejerk disgust at the thought of even being near a naked man. I went from complete disinterest in men to revulsion because no one would accept my lack of interest until I began to express my revulsion (after forcing myself to "try it out"). Lack of interest/complete disinterest should be enough, women don't have to hate men to want to be with only women. We are allowed to pursue only what we want!!

The lack of attraction to men combined with an attraction to women is all it takes to be a lesbian, if it's just a lack of attraction to men and no attraction to women, she'd be asexual. Straight people are allowed to just not want to be with the same-sex without having to be repulsed by the idea of same-sex genitalia, why can't homosexuals do the same??

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Leave it, she's obviously very hurt and angry. I don't blame her, the LGBT community let us all down and "being strong" is damn hard when you feel isolated. Trusting people when all they do is crush your feelings and ideas is very hard. I myself have my angry moments. I am very angry against women in general for letting other women down. Most of them don't care about GNC/homosexual women and they've opened their arms to the TQ+ while being a huge part of it. Fucking she/they. Fucking non binaries. Fucking trans this, trans that. Anything to reject womanhood and spit on the ones holding to it. They broke my heart. Not that men have done anything better, but I don't care about what they think a woman is. I do care about what women think of women tho. Women betraying other women hurts more. It's soul crushing. So I don't know if she feels that kind of hurt, but leave it. Maybe she'll feel better and hear your words later.