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[–]jay-dayGold Star Gay Woman[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I'm happy I never did that to myself. I never forced myself to do something disgusting.

[–]Bright_paintingLoad, lesbian biologist 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm one of the lesbians who forced herself to have sex with a guy in her early teenage years. I would say that if anyone is giving you shit for being brave enough to listen to your heart and not give into the expectations of everyone around you, they are just jealous and bitter that you didn't go through that quite traumatizing experience that they forced themselves into.

[–]MyLongestJourney 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You wouldn't say though that you are fine with sleeping with men and that makes you a lesser type of lesbian? Because this is how OP sees your experience. Just read her previous thread. I never slept with a man,but I am not militant/purist with lesbians who did.Because I am able understand many women forced themselves to sleep with men for a variety of non sexual reasons.

[–]Treeofthoughts 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

To use some modern languague - being true to who you are is no bad thing!