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[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I really wish that these people would be self-aware enough to type out "She inflicts so much pain on my [by just existing and not doing anything]," then stop, take a look at that, and think, 'Maybe it's not her that's the problem since she's literally not doing anything.' No, instead we go straight to threats and violence.

Also very skeezy in general this language he's using to describe his coworker. He is definitely glossing over the "do bad things to her" when he's most likely talking about rape fantasies.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yup, locating the problem in the person they're projecting onto is a large part of why they're so effed up. This is literally a dude who wants to be a perpetrator conjuring "she made me do it" about his prospective victim.