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[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not at all a dangerous predator, not at all a ticking time bomb.

[–]JulienMayfair 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

she inflicts so much pain on me . . .

No, this is pain he inflicts on himself. It's his own internal problem, but because of gender identity bullshit, it's now the whole world's problem. And that is how we got here -- by making everyone responsible for everyone else's feelings.

[–]shveya 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Especially since she's probably compliant towards him and plays pretend with him (even if it's for the sake of avoiding drama or a lecture from HR).

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I really wish that these people would be self-aware enough to type out "She inflicts so much pain on my [by just existing and not doing anything]," then stop, take a look at that, and think, 'Maybe it's not her that's the problem since she's literally not doing anything.' No, instead we go straight to threats and violence.

Also very skeezy in general this language he's using to describe his coworker. He is definitely glossing over the "do bad things to her" when he's most likely talking about rape fantasies.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yup, locating the problem in the person they're projecting onto is a large part of why they're so effed up. This is literally a dude who wants to be a perpetrator conjuring "she made me do it" about his prospective victim.

[–]shveya 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And we're the assholes for being uncomfortable with guys like this in private spaces where we're exposed and vulnerable?

[–]NutterButterFlutterStill waving into the void 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

The Reddit user has been suspended: https://old.reddit.com/user/tossmeintothetrashh. Google Cache shows this was his only post.

Post has been removed: https://old.reddit.com/r/MtF/comments/utgb1d/how_to_deal_with_extreme_jealousy_towards_cis/

Archive from a few days ago: https://archive.ph/F5C7D

I'm not entirely convinced that this wasn't bait to make the trans community look bad, but we'll never know for sure. OPs responses in the post are pretty delusional.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Unfortunately even at this, with the quantity of other accounts expressing only slightly-less-alarming sentiments (or just as alarming, or more alarming), it isn't over-the-top enough to seem implausible.

[–]Chipit[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

All the language is right. Usually wreckers can't write this well. But this rings true.

It only has one post because she said it was a throwaway.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hope the therapist gets that one's head screwed on the rest of the way in time. So much yikes.

Sucks that we can't warn the coworker. This is one of those posts that makes the news later when they're trying to figure out why someone did something.

[–]Virginia_Plain 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He absolutely needs to see a therapist, and I am hoping that this therapist does not coddle him. This is Silence of the Lambs shit.

[–]dilsencySame-sex community 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My big awkward body that will never look feminine or attractive

You can still look feminine in relation to the common man, if that matters to you. I guess that won't be good enough.

Attractive is subjective. Chances are someone is already attracted to your body type.

[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think this is a fairly common feeling for them. They have that rage bottled up inside them just waiting to unleash it on any woman that society gives them approval to do it too. This guy will 100% commit violence against women at some point, possibly even the woman he talks about. All it'll take is for her to do something he thinks is TERFy.

They are just incels in dresses after all.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 8 insightful - 7 fun8 insightful - 6 fun9 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Buffalo Bill was such a biased and unrealistic portrayal of a transwoman…

[–]CleverFoolOfEarth 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's a narcissistic psychopath right there.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hulk smash?...

Seriously though, this is scary. I hope they didn't get one of those "gender affirming" shrinks who are just glorified yes men.

Makes you wonder exactly how many other trans simmer silently in hot toxic soup like this, because a 'cis' person in their life is the gender ideal they can never hope to reach.

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

RIP Snappy, I AM THE NEW GOD!

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[–]LesbianManiactransphobic lol 0 insightful - 1 fun0 insightful - 0 fun1 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"she inflicts pain on me," he is so entitled and self-centric that he believes a woman existing and looking like a woman is a crime against him. He believes he has the right to hurt her because she doesn't, what? Kill herself so he doesn't have to face reality?