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[–]julesburm1891 12 insightful - 6 fun12 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

What doing sex work has taught me is that most men either have contacted a sex worker, hired a sex worker, or thought about hiring a sex worker

I mean, if you are literally a prostitute and all of your business dealings are with men hiring hookers then I see how you think that might be a thing for all men. But, like, you have to back a claim that big up with actual evidence.

I’m tired of my pleasure being irrelevant.

Sleep with less shitty people then? I thought you were a professional at this.

People don’t think women ever want to just have sex, but we do.

Show me these people.

Hiring a professional, as opposed to finding someone at a bar or from a dating app, is more appealing to me because after years of catering to everyone else’s sexual needs I want sex without a lot of preamble.

Just download Tinder or show up to the gay club. It isn’t hard if you aren’t a troll or a boor.

Consistently talking about needing a professional is, frankly, odd. This is sex, not brain surgery or HVAC repair. People have had this one on lock for millennia.

I contacted a few of them and here’s what I heard in return: Sorry I don’t see women unless it’s a threesome; OK, but can you send me some selfies of yourself before I decide; or I will see you but you have to pay more. These are likely not the responses a male client would receive.

No shit. These are straight women who will go gay for pay. They don’t actually want to have sex with you.

Of course, no one should have sex with someone they don’t want to

Unless it hurts your feelings and you have to write an entire HuffPost article about it?

if I’m having this much difficulty finding a provider, I can’t imagine what those who are trans or gender-non-conforming would go through

Okay, it’s weird you keep calling it a provider like you’re a general practitioner or something. Anyways, if they’re chasing after people who aren’t into their sex, they’re probably having the about the same difficulty as you doing the very same thing.

Seeing a sex worker can be immensely healing, especially for groups who have been shunned, put down, or treated poorly by society at large. It can be therapeutic to have someone be with you, touch you, see you

Clearly the solution to all the world’s troubles are to just send a brigade of hookers in to heal the downtrodden. On the real, I can’t think of anything that would make me feel worse about myself than having to pay a woman to touch me.