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[–]jay-dayGold Star Gay Woman 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I looked through her Tiktok, she says she's Jewish but also her parents are Evangelical Christians. So I guess she converted to Judaism? But she also doesn't like religion and is not religious.

Went from straight to lesbian to aro/ace pansexual nonbinary queer. Always uses words like "became" and "labels" when talking about sexual orientation, so probably just a weird straight girl.

She has three eating disorders.

Diagnosed with 5 mental disorders

Everyone in her family hates her (supposedly)

Has ADHD, abuses her ADHD medication, takes all four of them at once which can fuck you up.

She kins Hannibal Lecter. Has a fixation on him killing and mutilating his victims. Her friends have asked her to calm down on the Hannibal obsession.

Said she was homophobic before

She gets into fights with everyone.

Idk how old she is, but I feel bad for her putting her cringy phase online for everyone to see. Hope she gets some actual help someday.

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Imma guess "bisexual and severely repressed by conservative family". She's trying on all the labels, even "bad" ones, since she's not allowed to just be herself. She has to fit their mold and is rebelling. She's over-compensating with each label because that's the only way she gets seen and acknowledged.

What she's going through is normal and silly and ridiculous growing up, we all did it in our own ways. I also feel bad that her struggle is memorialized online. She is unlikely to be able to escape the stigma as she progresses into adulthood because it's all easily Google-able. This sort of cringe will follow her because the internet doesn't forget.

[–]jay-dayGold Star Gay Woman 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly who knows at this point. She was in high school (maybe still is?) at most points, and she has several LGBT flags in the background, so by my guess her parents bought them for her. The "homophobia" from what I see on some of the vids is her parents not getting what nb, asexual, pansexual, queer is. It's hard to tell if she is actually having difficulty with hateful parents, because as I brought up with Jules she does things like make offensive Jewish jokes and then gets mad at her friends for laughing at them.