ColonizationSo many ways to say you’re Bi in the comments

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[–][deleted] 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

What even is gender or sexual orientation?

Gender is made up nonsense. Sexual orientation is what sex you are attracted to. They are not related. Just look at the hoops she has to jump through to try to make sense of this nonsense. She's a lesbian who went on a date with a bi woman who was pretending to be a gay man.

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 13 insightful - 8 fun13 insightful - 7 fun14 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

Right? At first I was following along like, "Oh, two androgynous people went on a date and it took them a minute before they realized that they were actually a lesbian and a gay man, and had a good laugh." That's kind of a funny story. Then she drops the bomb that it was trans man she went out with, and I'm like, "Wait, so you're saying that you, a lesbian, went on a date with a woman, and now you are confused about your sexuality?"

Make it make sense.

[–]julesburm1891 14 insightful - 7 fun14 insightful - 6 fun15 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

…she literally went on a date with a woman.

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There's nothing wrong with being Bi - but it's inappropriate to invade a lesbian space and talk over them about Bi experiences.

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

After chatting on a dating app with someone I thought was a non-binary person or a gender nonconforming woman (both our dating profiles are meme-y and confusing, our language has no gendered pronouns, and we both have gender neutral names), we decided on a weekend lunch and a walk. I had a lovely time! After couple of hours we started talking about gay shit we found out about our gender blunder, had a good laugh, and continued on our date. He later told me that he found my queer androgyny very attractive, and I have to admit that his genderfuckery, softness and queer history were appealing. He’s a trans man, and wears his masculinity loosely with painted nails and eyeliner.

So you went on a date with a gender nonconforming straight woman? Or maybe she's bi, IDK. Either way, she's a fucking idiot.

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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