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[–]SerpensInferna 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If that actually happened that is amazing and I want to find this woman and buy her drinks. Seeing as how I am also a woman I feel like I have a much better chance at well, everything, with her than this porn sick idiot.

[–]MyLongestJourney 24 insightful - 9 fun24 insightful - 8 fun25 insightful - 9 fun -  (3 children)

Breed TERFs out of society

You can not breed out the ability to tell a man from a woman.

[–]SilverWolf 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

How do you do the quote-indent-thing?

[–]MBMayfair 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

When you click on "reply" and the text box appears, click on "formatting help" below it, and it shows you how to do the different options.

[–]SilverWolf 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When you click on "reply" and the text box appears, click on "formatting help" below it, and it shows you how to do the different options.

Like this?

Edit: got it, thanks!

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 24 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

The possible locations this happened are : Roxy's, a lesbian bar in Buffalo up until 2014, and The Roxy, a restaurant in Portland that closed a couple weeks ago that had a for everyone policy.

Probably was the latter. Also, for more proof of the guy being a creep who doesn't respect boundaries:

He's being called out for being 29 and posting on r/teenagers

[–]MBMayfair 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Nice work! And he also posted about how he enjoys wearing sanitary pads because he likes how they feel. Creep.

[–]julesburm1891 19 insightful - 7 fun19 insightful - 6 fun20 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Might’ve been a TERF?

Ah, but if transwomen don’t look and act exactly like men, how would she have known he was a transwoman and reacted that way?

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 17 insightful - 10 fun17 insightful - 9 fun18 insightful - 10 fun -  (1 child)

how would you breed someone...out of society..?

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 19 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

Funny enough the responses to him in r/MTF from his fellow trans women were more based than they would be in r/actuallesbians. And that's before his post did the rounds. I like when they tell on themselves, so I don't support going into their spaces and downvoting gems like this:

how cute... A lesbian woman whose preference is women with vaginas. So you feel like transwomen are not valid women and should not be treated and seen as such? Definitely TERFy smelling. Sounds like you fetishize AFAB genitalia rather than who the woman is herself... If thats the case there are other sub reddits you should peruse with your time.

Screenshot and archive. Let them dig their own grave and prove us right when we say they are homophobic af and have fostered a hostile environment in LGBT spaces where homosexual female = TERF.

[–]SilverWolf 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

How is this even possible? Every time something like this comes up, all "wrongthink" gets removed and banned by mods, but this time people are actually allowed to say trans lesbians aren't real lesbians, and that they need to leave real lesbians alone? Especially when the sub is as trans focused as MtF... Not that this is a bad thing of course, but what's going on?

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

To be clear, the comments I'm talking about weren't from "TERFs" but were from fellow trans women. I saw this post a week or so ago and this was before "TERFs" commented on it. At that point the post was already two weeks old. The comments from "TERFs" happened in the last few days when the thread was already 3 weeks old and they're probably still up now because their age makes them a low priority for moderators.

I'm actually kind of annoyed at the "TERFs" who went in and added their comments, upvotes, and downvotes in the last few days because while they're not wrong and I get their frustration, these actions are short-sighted, ineffective, a waste of their time and energy, and will just add fuel and some credence to these rapey transbians' victim complex. It's the MTF subreddit. Their turf. And I'd rather preserve the comments and reactions straight from the horses' mouths.

I am also a little suspicious of this post because it was archived on Wayback Machine [only 2 minutes after it was made on r/MTF prior to any comments and voting]((https://web.archive.org/web/20220321170412/https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/comments/tjgiaa/vent_rejected_at_a_lesbian_bar/), indicating that it was likely archived by the OP.

[–]MBMayfair 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think it's because it's a slightly older post, but the critical comments are much newer, so they flew under the radar (for now).

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If this is true, then good on that woman for her honesty. I hope it is true. Unfortunately, this is Reddit so it's hard to know.

[–][deleted] 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If this happened then that woman had the only proper response to being approached by a man.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, probably didn't happen... but it so SHOULD HAVE

[–]tu_jode_mucho 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My face was burning and I was trying not to cry

Men are afraid women will laugh at them etc etc you know the rest

[–]wendyokoopa1 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly if I was working at that bar I would have comped the alleged terf her and her companions drinks. We deserve safe spaces

[–]wendyokoopa1 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If this happened I have to agree I'd buy the woman drinks too. It doesn't matter what sexual spectrum women run we deserve our spaces I prefer not being called a terf but a normal feminist.

[–]Hannibalboy93 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

She said FUCK NO!!! LMAO our girl wasn't playing any gender games. XD

[–]Hannibalboy93 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

FUCK NO!!! LMAO

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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