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[–]Fusrodamus 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

When a man dictates the terms under which a woman is permitted to reject him, what he's actually doing is reserving the right to declare that rejection invalid (e.g. "rude" or "transphobic") and act accordingly.

He's a rapist.

[–][deleted] 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I still hate that we're expected to be nice when rejecting a man. Why am I rude if I tell him to fuck off, but he's not rude for bugging me with his bullshit in the first place? Just doesn't make sense to me. Just pisses me off that men can approach me, invade my personal space, and then somehow I'm the rude one if I tell him to fuck off.

[–]MBMayfair 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

WHOA, Fusrodamus! That is awesome.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Prefect summation is perfect.