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[–]dilsencySame-sex community 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

When I searched for “queer wedding,” I found images of happy, nontraditional ceremonies: husbands hugging, wives kissing. Many of them were masculine-feminine couples. [...] It is beautiful, sure, but it was more of the same: male/female, masculine/feminine, and suit/gown. I couldn’t envision myself in those roles. My sense of being the odd one out intensified.

Imagine being this obsessed with gender stereotypes that you think everyone around you is performing gender to the extent that you are.

Pondering who the wo/man in a same-sex relationship is says a lot about you, Claire.

[–]fuck_reddit 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I dont think I’ve ever seen a male/male wedding where “masculine/feminine” roles were evident from photos. I’ve seen some female/female wedding photos with suit and wedding dress, but that’s not a rule by any means. She’s just projecting her thoughts onto everyone and everything…