The petty/vengeful part of me feels like every time she tries to make you hang out with her trans friends, you should follow up by sending her an article about how trans people are sexually harassing gay people. Or how transwomen are destroying women's sports, or send her a tweet/blog post from a crazy TRA raving about how they want to submit gays to conversion therapy, etc. 😈😈 And be like, "Hey, what do you think about this??" 😇😇

Of course, that would probably prove inflammatory, so another option would just be to make an excuse about how you can't go every time she tries to get you to hang with her trans friends. Or you could always just stop hanging out with her. That's what I did with my "friends" after they were all raving about JKR. You know, someone who is your friend should be someone you enjoy being around and who doesn't make your life more difficult, right? That's the approach I took. I realized I just really didn't enjoy being around my pro-trans kinkster pickme libfem "friends" anymore. Seeing them bashing women for naming the truth (JKR) or talking about how BDSM relationships are sO mUcH mOrE lOvInG was just depressing. Why would I want to be friends with people that make me feel depressed? Maybe you should think about that too... do you enjoy hanging out with her enough that she's worth this stress she's bringing to you? Is she the type that will cancel you if you say something too "wrong"?