Colonization"My Strap-on IS My Dick, Bro" Ultra-Cringe at this immersive LARP

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[–]Rosefield 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

I need my partners to interact with it like they would a cis dick: jerk me off, give me blowjobs etc. I am very verbal and I talk about my cock a lot in bed. It's integral to me that my cock is my cock, not a "strap on" and I'm making it very clear to my partners.

Oh god. Her poor partners. Imagine having to play pretend like a deranged clown so that this woman doesn't have a mental breakdown because her sex toy isn't a real penis.

I mean it's better than genital multilation but still insane.

[–]jjdub7TERF (Trans Exterminating Reactionary Fascist)[S] 22 insightful - 11 fun22 insightful - 10 fun23 insightful - 11 fun -  (1 child)

This was my exact thought reading this, like how do people become this fucking damaged that they NEED this level of external play-along from others?

Imagine bringing a MLP plushie with you to work and insisting everyone acknowledge you and your horse at the start of every meeting.

[–]millicentfawcett 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I remember reading about someone (a man, possibly not with male pronouns) who did this and was indulged. I'm sure it was a Google engineer or similar.

[–]SerpensInferna 21 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Who are all these people having sex with these nutjobs, I wonder?

[–]DrMantisToboggan 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

She must be T4T, because no self-respecting gay man is going to fellate a dildo.

[–]CleverFoolOfEarth 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You underestimate the power that ideologies that mandate compliance have on those trapped within them. I once met a gay Catholic man from Britain who wants to become a priest so the Virgin Mary will answer his prayers to not be gay anymore. If I'm not mistaken, the Catholic church currently has a neutral stance on homosexuality, but this guy listened to a bunch of whatever the British equivalent of bible-thumpers is instead of the actual stance of his own religion, so yeah, being in a weird extreme sect can fuck with your head pretty bad.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 13 insightful - 6 fun13 insightful - 5 fun14 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

That's actually less insane than demanding someone fellate your dildo as if it were your real dick.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Other very damaged people. Just closing your eyes and imagining their interactions is gag inducing.

[–]fuck_reddit 10 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

It sounds like torture, silicon and lube taste horrible.

[–]Rosefield 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

For us it's torture, for her it's identity validation.

[–]chandra 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I mean it's better than genital multilation but still insane.

Don't speak too soon, she's had a phalloplasty now and is "feeling amazing comfort. I feel normal and equal to cis men in every way. Dysphoria never crosses my mind. Feel beautiful, sexy and calm." This despite "The phallus does not have any sensation other than some minimal one on the bottom lower half where the urethra is. It doesn’t bother me. I can orgasm from tugging on my dick which moves the tdick underneath."

Which, genuinely good for her if this has relieved her dysphoria, but she still can't expect other people to pretend this is a penis.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Fancy interacting sexually with that level of mental illness on the other end of it. Absolutely delusional.

[–]jim_steak 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

i feel the EXACT same as you. the worst dysphoria trigger for me is having people reference my dick as a strap-on. it makes me want to vomit. i had a literal FTM partner continuously call it that no matter how many times i explained to him that i am a man and it is my dick/cock.

It's interesting the degree to which these posters' dysphoria seems to be mediated through language rather than physical reality. I would have expected dysphoria to be triggered by things like removing the strap on, or lack of sensation when having sex. Instead, it seems like their dysphoria is centered around other peoples' perceptions of them and their response is to try to tightly control how people are allowed to express themselves around them. It also speaks to the degree to which these posters are removed from reality - for them controlling the language around the strap on makes it into a real dick.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Instead, it seems like their dysphoria is centered around other peoples' perceptions of them and their response is to try to tightly control how people are allowed to express themselves around them.

This is the 180-degree polar opposite of self-actualization, "authenticity", and spiritual enlightenment by almost any relevant metric.

[–]jjdub7TERF (Trans Exterminating Reactionary Fascist)[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

dysphoria seems to be mediated through language rather than physical reality

Yes, this is a central feature of minds poisoned by postmodernism, i.e. the notion that language and semantics somehow "construct" reality itself rather than just one's perception of reality.

What's especially interesting is that prolonged indulgence in this worldview, as a practice, induces something like schizophrenia in its disciples.

[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This just screams antisocial personality disorder to me. It's not about dysphoria since it's purely about what words the other person chooses to use. It's all about control with no thought or care for the other person's thoughts or feelings.

Considering how widespread this kind of behavior is in the trans community I wonder how many of them also have ASPD.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 11 insightful - 10 fun11 insightful - 9 fun12 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

FtMMen

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[–]sadbihours 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is a psychopath. No other way to put it.

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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