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[–]censorshipment 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Honestly, I don't see a problem with asking this... the question should be coming from a homosexual female, not a heterosexual male, though.

Anal sex always seemed so gross to me until I listened to, ironically, a "homosexual transsexual" (gay dude living as a woman) talk about it on YouTube 10+ years ago and was telling folks how to do it safely and cleanly. I started fingering my own ass in the shower and really enjoyed it lol but I have never enjoyed my pussy being fingered (as a stone butch). I've discussed this with my ex (we're still sexually involved), and she is 100% against anything anal. 🥲

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    [–]CleverFoolOfEarth 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Responding to the comment "Many lesbians don't even like vaginal penetration":

    To my understanding as someone who used to be fascinated by reading stuff about sex until I got off of SSRIs, developed a sex drive, and realized that it isn't some mystical thing (meaning that, with full disclosure, nearly my entire body of knowledge about sex comes from people complaining on the internet and the rest comes from erotic fanfictions I clicked on while browsing Tumblr as a young teenager), neither do the vast, vast majority of straight women, but they either get pressured into it by selfish partners or themselves are so uninformed on their own bodies that they don't know that there's much better (better for females and for males!) ways to achieve sexual intimacy than humping like mindless animals.

    [–]Lizzythelezzo 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Maybe I'm an outlier but I'm same sex attracted and really enjoy vaginal penetration and anal penetration with fingers and/or toys. I have masturbated on my own with anal sex from time to time, though it is more messy so I don't do it often.