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[–]hufflepuff-poet 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I've got her to keep her underwear on more often so I don't get reminded about it, which makes me feel terrible cause my partner's genitals should make me feel happy and not sad.

Yes! If you're partner's genitals make you sad, you should take a good hard look at your relationship and why you're in it and of you truly want to be. Sex with your gf/bf should bring y'all closer, not be filled with shame and disconnect.

Hey I'm in a very similar position! (my gf wants to get bottom surgery though so one day I'll be free) My approach is to ask for more praise and worship, it helps me feel better. And even if you're slightly smaller she can still enjoy how big you are! It's not like she's ever had her own dick inside her. But yeah it still sucks. It would be nice if I was bigger 😅

Woah, celebrating their partner's eventual self-harm because they don't want to work on their own insecurities.

How are any of these people in successful long-term relationships?! Nothing but head games; abusive games of play pretend and make believe.

LGB is about being your authentic self and loving openly and honestly, not the abyss of delusions this is.