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[–]julesburm1891 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I never understand this kind of bitching because it means you want one of four things to happen.

  1. Lesbians to just shut up and let you fuck us. (You’re a narcissist and monster advocating rape if you want this.)

  2. Lesbians to pretend we might be into your dick to make you feel better. (You’re a fucking asshole if you think other people ought to lie and debase themselves for your personal feelings. You’re also setting yourself up for failure with this farce because you’ll just be mad when no one will actually fuck you.)

  3. Lesbians to shut up about feelings when you’re around. (Again, you’re a fucking asshole if you think you should get to dictate others’ speech and sexuality because of your feelings. Plus, your balls. Way to create a situation where it really draws attention to the fact that you aren’t “one of the girls” and everyone has to walk on eggshells around you.)

  4. Lesbians to just shut up. (Let me reiterate, you’re a fucking asshole if you think your feelings get to determine everyone else’s speech and sexuality. You’re also creating a situation where we actively resent you instead of tolerate you with eye rolls.)

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 10 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 5 fun11 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

Wait, um, so let me get this straight: you're saying that, unavoidably, transbians like this are assholes?

[–]julesburm1891 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Until I encounter one transbian that doesn’t insist on appropriating our label, demand we redefine ourselves, or advocate rape, yes.

[–]dilsencySame-sex community 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

it's a bad look to equate manhood with penises

They're relating manhood to being male. A penis is a result of normal development whilst male.

[–]JohnWhyGay Man 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Like... If you shouldn't equate penises with men and vaginas with women, then isn't transitioning transphobic and dysphoria a lie? They know full well what a male and female body is supposed to be, which is why they go to such great pains to chemically and surgically rearrange their parts in an attempt to resemble the gender they want to imitate. If a penis can be female and a vagina male, then why do they claim to feel so uncomfortable with having them? Their bodies were apparently already the same gender as their mind because there is no such thing as an exclusively male or female body characteristic.

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They now say that medical transitioning and dysphoria is wrong. They say it doesn't represent what trans actually is, and they reject and admonish transitioning as "gatekeeping".

Actual trans people are getting overrun by this now, and are being erased and cancelled. It's moved beyond real trans now.

[–]lunarstrain 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

baby queer

The man who decided he has a lady brain within the last 5 years, maybe 10 if I'm being generous, feels like the oldest lesbian "joke" in history is by and for newcomers...

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Wtf is "comphet"?

I read it as "comfet" then realized it is most likely some new TRA jargon about heterosexuals.

Computational heterosexuals? IDK

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Compulsory heterosexuality. It's a theory from the 1980s, meant to explain later bloomer lesbians. Societal pressures pushing them into straight relationships basically.

What it means to the queers seems to be that it's mostly a way for bi women to claim to be lesbians while still being attracted to men. So obviously popular with TRAs as well since it means "lesbians" can like dick.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Don’t hang around groups of lesbians if you don’t want to hear about one of the few things that unites every lesbian regardless of our individual beliefs, upbringing, and hobbies. But it’s good to know this repels you.

Consider sticking to your fellow transbians so you can bond over your dicks?