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[–][deleted] 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

This particular experience has nothing to do with cis gays (although she wants to think it does).

She is a straight woman with a straight man, and he is using her for sex. He doesn't do anal play, the end.

Apparently anal is what defines gay men to this homophobic twat, and her former FWB. She is upset because she's not being validated as a "gay man" since she transitioned, and his sexuality has nothing to do with hers.

Guess what honey, no one gives a shit about your feelings when all they want to do is fuck. Maybe you should choose a better way to get to know a person and bond with them instead of sex acts and mind games.

[–]dramasexual 13 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

I wouldn’t have an issue with him not wanting to bottom if he hadn’t told me before he’s more submissive and a bottom with guys.

Sounds like he's bisexual tbh, unless he is 100% lying to her about everything. Which, come to think of it, I wouldn't put it past a straight dude to do to get some easy handjobs or whatever.

[–]Criticallacitirc 9 insightful - 9 fun9 insightful - 8 fun10 insightful - 9 fun -  (1 child)

Are these teenagers ? Only Handjobs ?! Lol

[–]grassfed 8 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Typical zoomers

[–]Finnegan7921 11 insightful - 8 fun11 insightful - 7 fun12 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

"He validates me so much"....yeah b/c you're giving him handjobs. He'll tell you w/ever you want so you can make him bust those nuts.

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Even in this circumstance, it's a straight man setting his boundaries with this delusional woman. It doesn't make you morally inferior to not consent to a certain sex act, even if it's one that you are supposed to be the sole partner getting pleasure from it. Funny how amid discussions on "rape culture" and entirely new version of it arose.