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[–]Q-Continuum-kin 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I think that what he said (he said she broke his heart by being a ftm supposedly) is pretty shit because it's making your existence about HIM.

Not even true because he is validating the trans identity by deciding not to date you when you haven't done anything but "identify" as a man... Meanwhile you make his entire sexuality about YOU and want him to call himself gay because you insist on being labeled as a "femboy".

[–]HelloMomo 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

The whole "existence" thing is so weird. It's a word they reach for so often. Everything is a threat to their very existence!

Like... even with their logic, how is this "making your existence about HIM"? He never so much as asked her not to transition. He literally just had his own feelings about it.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Also he never intended to make the person feel a certain way. He confided in a 3rd person who went and told.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That's the problem with narcissists. They don't allow you to have your own feelings. If it's not 100% consistent with what they have in their head you are disrespecting them or you are the enemy.

[–]Mikulbleu 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I just try and educate everyone who will listen on the patterns of narcissism, show them therapist videos on youtube and hope they can connect the dots themselves. I have a lot of “embies” at my job, and they’re kinda all insufferable, lazy twats to be around, so I’m hoping that people realize that people who go out of their way to inconvenience others are most likely narcissists

[–]jjdub7TERF (Trans Exterminating Reactionary Fascist) 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

OH DEAR GOD THEY'RE ERASING OUR EXIS...