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Really good answer. It's a collective effort to make this world as fucked up as possible frankly (lol). What is bothersome is not the kink itself imo (well it depends on the kink I guess...), is that people clame that it's all fiction and that it stays in the fantasy world but we've often seen more than once that it clearly wasn't the case. So... I don't even know how we're supposed to regulate all this shit or spread awareness. And "bannishing" everything porn related isn't even considerable, at least not from my point of view.

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It depends you have to have a healthy disconnect from what is actually going on. We have groups that are against alcoholism and you have to have the same message to people who get addicted to any "vice good" and that includes porn or sex at large. Vast majority of people are able to keep a healthy disconnect but you have lots of people where it consumes their entire life.

I mean since this is the topic of the sub reddit I do in large feel that while there is actual gender dysphoria most trans people really just have an AGP fetish or whatever the equivalent would be for women. They are taking it too far though encroaching on others comfort or destroying their own bodies with life changing hormones. The vast majority of fetishes people want to keep to fantasizing in their head or the bedroom in a safe environment.

Most people in these non consent communities in large also have a disconnect and don't want to hurt their partner. That said of course you have people who actually have power trips or are abusive that prey in it too.