Remember: With narcissists every accusation is a confession. Once you realise that, you'll see it everywhere. Notice how TRAs have recently started using "What do you believe in some kind of sexed soul?" as an argument for example. They're saying that, because they know that's exactly what they believe, so they project it onto others. Same thing here, they know they've stolen and twisted the definition, they know they have no claim to it, so they project that outwards rather than admit fault