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[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

You are not failing your friends by lurking on Ovarit. We are in the middle of a worldwide mass psychosis brought on by the internet and the whole gender thing turned into a cult. You staying sane in this is in no way or form a slight against your friends.

In 5-10 years this thing is going to be over after a lot of medical scandals and lawsuits. So hang on.

If you need an ovarit code i can give you one maybe you can find some friends there.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel this way too (though I honestly don't check radfem spaces, the only thing we align with is being gender critical, skeptical of what's currently happening but I really don't like radfems approach and usually one-dimensional interpretation to it to serve their agenda) but I then realize that I never really had issues with trans people themselves. Before I got deeper into the issue I saw trans people as the old school transsexuals, who go through psychiatric diagnosis, treatment and their dysphoria was there since basically forever... shit changed when I realized these are the minority of today's trans people. My problem isn't being trans meaning a person, who deals with a clearly neurological condition as originally understood. My issue is people, who never thought of themselves being trans, suddenly jumping onto this identity and hurting, confusing themselves. And then also malicious people using this identity to harm others. Well, does it make me a bad person to come from this perspective on my current trans skepticism? I don't think so.

[–]WanderingLost[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Thanks for the reassurance, and for sending me a code. I would like that. It’s just hard to find lesbian friends who want to stay women. It sounds selfish of me but I’m just feeling lonely and baffled

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I PM'd you a code. I also heard Giggle is a nice social app for women but i'm not on that so i have no clue if its good or not.