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[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Wait, they've been together for three years? So this "I'm a trans man" thing couldn't have possibly been the deal in the very beginning of the relationship. Is she dating a gay man that started dating her when she was presenting as a woman, or is she dating a straight man that likes getting pegged and is just hoping that the trans thing will blow over?

This shit is so confusing. Also, I hate that, "I want him to say very specific things but I want him to just organically come up with those specific things! Why can't he read my mind?!?!?!" nonsense. Girl, just have a fucking talk with him (never mind the fact that he's probably not "affirming" you because he probably still sees you as a woman and is thinking you'll get over being trans and go back to being his girlfriend at some point).

[–]Virginia_Plain 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Dear god, sometimes the titles of these posts exaggerate the awfulness of what's being said, but the "it's my dick, it's a part of me, it is not a dildo" sounds like something Winston would be forced to say in the climax to 1984. She needs to control his reality.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 11 insightful - 9 fun11 insightful - 8 fun12 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

it helps explain why they are so attached to the idea of their dicks being better than a bio guy. Its an actual size morphing penis!!!1

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wait, they've been together for three years? So this "I'm a trans man" thing couldn't have possibly been the deal in the very beginning of the relationship.

I thought that too, but the binding comment here suggests that there were at least some clues at the start of this relationship—not sure I want to keep reading back through the other comments to find more, though.

[–]Mikulbleu 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Tell me you’re a cluster B without saying you’re cluster B