ColonizationWhy can't my dumb cissy bf act like my plastic dong is real? >:(

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[–]Q-Continuum-kin 31 insightful - 3 fun31 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

he needs to be educated

I was just thinking about this. They always use this language accompanied by "it's not my job to educate you."

It's interesting that both things are constantly said. They want you to be converted though "education" but they have no coherent ideology so they can't educate you on their religion. It's worse than going to catechism class. At least the Catholics have a somewhat coherent mythology and a system of forgiveness built in if you sin against them.

[–]TovasshiDefinitely a house plant 25 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

This person is 22 and has been on T for 6 years meaning they started cross-sex hormones at 16. They post constantly in relationship subreddits about wanting to cheat on their boyfriend.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yuck. Thanks for taking one for the team by knowing this.

[–]buhnahnuhbr3ad 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Well yeah cuz he's being a bad boyfriend >:( he deserves to be cheated on

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Wait, they've been together for three years? So this "I'm a trans man" thing couldn't have possibly been the deal in the very beginning of the relationship. Is she dating a gay man that started dating her when she was presenting as a woman, or is she dating a straight man that likes getting pegged and is just hoping that the trans thing will blow over?

This shit is so confusing. Also, I hate that, "I want him to say very specific things but I want him to just organically come up with those specific things! Why can't he read my mind?!?!?!" nonsense. Girl, just have a fucking talk with him (never mind the fact that he's probably not "affirming" you because he probably still sees you as a woman and is thinking you'll get over being trans and go back to being his girlfriend at some point).

[–]Virginia_Plain 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Dear god, sometimes the titles of these posts exaggerate the awfulness of what's being said, but the "it's my dick, it's a part of me, it is not a dildo" sounds like something Winston would be forced to say in the climax to 1984. She needs to control his reality.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 11 insightful - 9 fun11 insightful - 8 fun12 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

it helps explain why they are so attached to the idea of their dicks being better than a bio guy. Its an actual size morphing penis!!!1

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wait, they've been together for three years? So this "I'm a trans man" thing couldn't have possibly been the deal in the very beginning of the relationship.

I thought that too, but the binding comment here suggests that there were at least some clues at the start of this relationship—not sure I want to keep reading back through the other comments to find more, though.

[–]Mikulbleu 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Tell me you’re a cluster B without saying you’re cluster B

[–]jiljol 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

The OP of that thread has previously suggested using a spray bottle on parents who commit the cardinal sin of "misgendering" their child.

Definitely an individual with good mental health.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 14 insightful - 10 fun14 insightful - 9 fun15 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

Tra: treat your parents like shit and spray them if they are bad or threaten to kill them

Also TRA: "I was kicked out by my parents for no reason what so ever i'm sleeping on my friends couch. Its because im trans im sure 😭😭"

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

if my kid sprayed me like that they'd sleep on the lawn that night

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 13 insightful - 12 fun13 insightful - 11 fun14 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

I don’t like using language that clearly sets me apart from a cis man.

Well...

[–]HelloMomo 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Straight guys already seem to have this underlying fear that pegging is gay. If people keeping telling them it is, they'll probably stop doing it.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Very often the hell that torments a person is one of their own making.

This statement applies to both parties involved in this clusterfuck.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 13 insightful - 6 fun13 insightful - 5 fun14 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Apparently mermaids/stonewall isn't "educating" us as thoroughly as needed.

[–]SolRosenberg 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So all those "would you date a trans guy" posters in AGB ain't really looking for romantic relations but tools to further their descent into delusion. I feel for the BF. GTF outta there!

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 9 insightful - 6 fun9 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

My partner of 3 years is unable to understand what it means to be affirming.

Oh good; His sense is still intact.

In which case, him doing and saying those things wouldn’t feel as genuine because they wouldn’t be his idea to do them, they would be mine. It would basically feel like me just telling myself those things, you know.

If your trans man-ness was actual you would't require anyone to constantly affirm anything about it, including yourself. Your perma-dick and balls would be right there, reminding you every-time you whizzed.

I’ve told him many times (especially in the bedroom) that he has to learn how to talk about certain things. For example, when I’m topping him, I’m not “using a dildo on him”. I’m fing him with my dick. It’s my dick. It’s a part of me. It isn’t a toy. I don’t like using language that clearly sets me apart from a cis man. Huge turn off.

Woah, calm your strap-on, lady- oops..

He understands this, but he just slips up sometimes, I guess? I don’t know. I don’t get it. Is it a cis man thing?

It's a subconscious awareness of reality thing. Pesky that.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well, if he's straight, that would mean... leaving you. Cuz the only dong (aside from his own) that straight guys could want anything to do with IS a plastic one!

[–]julesburm1891 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Can someone please archive? I can’t see without a Reddit account.

[–]artetolife[S] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Here you go

https://archive.ph/iFICu

[–]julesburm1891 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you!