Colonization"I came out as a lesbian, he came out as a trans woman, and now we’re hella queer together"

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[–][deleted] 31 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 0 fun32 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I'm so lost.

So, she was dating a man, who she was attracted to, but somehow she decided that she was an asexual lesbian and needed to break up with her boyfriend despite being attracted to him?

Leaving aside that asexual lesbian is an oxymoron, how is she either of those things if she's attracted to a man? And apparently she has had 5 boyfriends in the past. This is a straight woman desperate for attention or was desperate to get out of her relationship, i don't know which.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 17 insightful - 11 fun17 insightful - 10 fun18 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

The woman is a mess. A quick look on her profile shows she is now a sometimes bisexual sometimes lesbian non binary and is now polyamourus. Guess being "hella queer together" is not as great as it turned out to be.

I blame it all on the spores from the different mushrooms she tried to cultivate 2 years ago.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 14 insightful - 7 fun14 insightful - 6 fun15 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

Heterosexuality is booooooring ugh not into that piv life anymore everybody LOOK AT ME IM KWEER NOW mmm so kweeeer delicious attention omnomnom

  • That fool, probably.

[–]RippoffOfLoveSStraight | Overuses quotation marks 7 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Suddenly piv sex is interesting again!

[–]hufflepuff-poet 21 insightful - 8 fun21 insightful - 7 fun22 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

I’ve been realizing I’m an ace lesbian and was preparing to come out to my (formerly?) cishet boyfriend. Unbeknownst to me, he’s been suspecting that he’s actually a trans lesbian, which is… kind of convenient and explains a lot of my attraction to him? 😂

This is an actual late-bloomer lesbians worst nightmare, she goes through all the struggle of coming out so she can finally be free of the men she doesn't want and pursue her love for women and her loser ex gloms onto her and says HE is also a lesbian now teehee 🙄

Also how tf are you gay, if you're attracted to him and if you're attracted to men, why have you been thinking you're gay--you have one of the main disqualifiers for homosexuality; being attracted to the opposite sex. 🤡

After double checking to make sure he wasn’t just reacting to my news to try and keep me or something, we had a good laugh over the irony. Of the five guys I’ve had relationships with in the past, three have now come out as trans women.

But it's not a social contagion!!!!!! 🧐😒

He keeps joking that I was so gay I was dating women who didn’t even know they were women yet. 😂🥴

These delusional straight people are so disrespectful to LGB and what it actually means to struggle with your same-sex attraction in a world that hates and mocks it.

But uh… yeah. Any good transbian subreddits for him? 😂

Note: he’s still using he/his pronouns because he’s still a baby egg.

Lol send him over to /actuallesbians he'll fit in perfect with the rest of the creepy rapists and predators and their delusional girlfriends 🤡

[–]Mermer 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These delusional straight people are so disrespectful to LGB and what it actually means to struggle with your same-sex attraction in a world that hates and mocks it.

I'm so tired of being a joke 😔

[–]julesburm1891 14 insightful - 10 fun14 insightful - 9 fun15 insightful - 10 fun -  (1 child)

Denial ain’t just a river in Egypt.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

100% stealing this.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

This sounds like it was written by a transbian as a validation fantasy. Exactly how does a woman in a relationship with a guy come to the realization that she's an "ace lesbian" while still being attracted to a heterosexual male that she believes to be a heterosexual male? And then he says he has inner woman feelings and she's like, "oh good, I was attracted to you and can still be attracted to you." Women in relationships with men realize they're lesbians when they're not attracted to their male partners because they are factually male. And she was and is attracted to him and came to the realization that she's asexual too?

Nah, this didn't happen. And this is the kind of stuff that you write to (purposely or not) stress test the credulity of an entire generation and destroy their critical thinking skills.

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 10 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 5 fun11 insightful - 6 fun -  (2 children)

Oh but you forget, her boyfriend was always a woman; he just didn't realize it yet. Since she's a lesbian, she was attracted to the woman he always was, even if he was saying he was a man when she met him and became attracted to him. She was just confused why she was attracted to him, since she's a lesbian, but then when he said he was a woman it all made sense - she's just so gay that she's able to be attracted to women before they even know they're women.

FFS and now I'm confusing myself.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I hate that this is entirely in line with their ideology, it's mind-boggling how anyone survived the cognitive dissonance of being part of "the community"

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Even though this was said in jest, that's probably what the author of this validation fantasy actually wants people to think. When the irony is that it's the opposite of the actual late-bloomer lesbian experience, which is being confused about why you can't be attracted to an otherwise wonderful male partner while being in denial about your actual attraction to women in your life until it all clicks. That was my experience.

This post in reality mocks and trivializes the LBL experience. Why would a woman who doesn't think she's a lesbian ever be confused about being attracted to a male partner she believes is indeed male? This reminds me of the transbians saying that they always felt that they were attracted to women in a "queer" way before "realizing" they were trans women. As if that were a thing.

[–]Poppy29252Natal Cat Woman 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I was reading some of the replies and found this:

I've never perceived myself as male; others just didn't value my perception of myself until I was old enough to force them to.

"Force them to." What the fuck.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 11 insightful - 8 fun11 insightful - 7 fun12 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

I miss the time when words meant things. I have ~20 dictionaries on my shelves and I have to throw them all away now.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 8 insightful - 8 fun8 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Bring em on down to your local kweer community center's monthly book burning and add 'em to the pile of Harry Potter books and other forbidden teachings!! Don't let all that kindling go to waste!