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[–]hufflepuff-poet 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I love spending time with women, even when we disagree on basic tenets of reality. So I do go on dates with lesbians and bi women who are TRAs, or just "well-meaning" normies. But, I would only ever seriously date/get in a relationship with another lesbian whose pro-reality and GC at the least, even if not a fellow rad fem.

It's nearly impossible to find other rad fem lesbians in the wild, we're a tiny percent of an already small group. Dating is fun, when it's not really a lot of expectations and I just meet the woman where she's at. When it starts getting serious and she's still team TWAW and starts saying "some lesbians can have/like dick.", that's when I'm out. It's just disrespectful to me, as a lesbian, and to us/our wlw relationship!

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I think that's an interesting way to go about it. I don't think the trans stuff would pop up too much unless a big situation happens like what happened with Wii Spa or Johnathan Yaniv and so on but yeah, I can understand why you'd have to part when things get serious and they are saying contradictory things about our sexuality ("Lesbians can like dick" / "Gay men can like vaginas" lol)