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[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

It's not a sub ban but does getting banned from my bio family cult for saying too many true things count?

[–]julesburm1891 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Whoa. What are the details here?

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It's not a cult in an official sense, it is a narcissistic abuse dynamic involving two close relatives. They do not like it when anyone counters their false narratives with facts. Let's just say I fact-ed the heck out of their last attempt to pick a fight with me.

[–]reluctant_commenter 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Damn. Hope you have support/close relationships with other people in your life! Kinda sounds like these people were more of the energy-draining type. A blessing in disguise, maybe?

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A blessing in disguise, maybe?

Doing my best to turn it into one. Yes, I have other support thank goodness. I did the work to invest in those relationships for many years and they're coming through for me right now, including friends I had forgotten I had helped through their own tough stuff.

So it's both very hard and reminding me that people who are safe are still around and willing to show up for me. It's all a bit mind-blowing.