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[–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 25 insightful - 5 fun25 insightful - 4 fun26 insightful - 5 fun -  (3 children)

Of course she does... I can't even take those pictures seriously. I am bi and usually date men but I usually find more women attractive. This person fucked up. Imagine looking like a basic hairy guy and then you don't even get a nice dick out of it.

Why do these women ignore the fact that gay men DO like dicks? I should know, I was left by a gay man because I didn't have one lmao!!

The picture in the undies is just pathetic 😂 trying soooo hard but failing. Before you come at me, I already examined my "genital preference" and that's not it. I am not attracted to mentally unstable people and that is what they all have in common.

Healthy people don't threaten to kill themselves if they don't get laid or called a certain pronoun. These losers need to join reality and stop throwing gays, lesbians and women under the bus to get off.

[–]RiverSong 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why do these women ignore the fact that gay men DO like dicks?

Well, in case you didn't notice - they are working very hard on shaming homosexual people into sex/relationships with people of the oppsite sex, calling it transphobic if lesbians don't go down on girldick and gay men not eating out vagina.

;)

[–]DimDroog 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

This person fucked up. Imagine looking like a basic hairy guy and then you don't even get a nice dick out of it.

Basically, yes.

Big time, there is no going back after destroying your body like that.

At least she works out.

So many of them are hairy and fat. (NOTHING wrong with being chubby btw, I'm talking the size of Pluto. )

[–]Rage-Xion 12 insightful - 6 fun12 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 6 fun -  (14 children)

"Trans people have always been part of the gay community. Although there’s still so much more work to do in terms of equality for sexually and gender diverse people in society, without the effort of my community, we wouldn’t be at the place we are today. It seems like some cis gay men think they did all this work and fighting for our rights by themselves. That’s simply not true."

...

[–]Datachost 26 insightful - 8 fun26 insightful - 7 fun27 insightful - 8 fun -  (2 children)

It seems like some cis gay men think they did all this work and fighting for our rights by themselves. That’s simply not true.

Of course it isn't. There were lesbians involved too.

[–]Destresse🇨🇵 11 insightful - 5 fun11 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 5 fun -  (8 children)

Oh you could have continued. There is this gem later on, about the acceptance of trans people:

One major part is that we’re actually more visible in gay porn these days and I think that has helped a lot

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I don't think she realised they're there because they strongarmed limpdicked their way into "gay" porn. Can't confirm actual gay men watch it though.

[–]Rag3 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

It’s incredible how she thinks porn = acceptance.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 8 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

But don't fetishiiiiiiiiiiiiiize us!

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

amazing... being accepted because of the power of porn... woohoo i'm exhausted.......... and i feel more and more marginalized when i'm looking at those people, and there's so many of them

are we crazy or something ???? i'm starting to feel like that's the case, what is happening i can't haha

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

No, nope.

The porn industry is literaly one of the most astroturfed things there is, as only a few companies own basically the entire market. This means that hey can push whatever shit they want regardless of actual demand.

Also, most FtMs ""gay"" pornstars are known to be very unlikeable, even by industry standards.

[–]Virginia_Plain 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I'm curious about this, has there been a lot of ultimatums given to performers (i.e. demands that they be open to doing scenes)? Are people like Lily Cade outliers or just ones with guts/work secure enough to say something?

The only FTM performer I know of really is Buck Angel, who from interviews seems engaging, friendly, and surprisingly open to TERFery.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm curious about this, has there been a lot of ultimatums given to performers (i.e. demands that they be open to doing scenes)?

I don't know any specific cases, but the industry as a whole, specially on the "gay" side (most gay pornstar aren't gay and most gay studios aren't even owned by gay people), has a clear disdain to "close minded" people.

It wouldn't surprise me in the slightest if there were performers being blacklisted for not wanting to shoot with FtMs because of this alone.

Are people like Lily Cade outliers or just ones with guts/work secure enough to say something?

Yup.

The industry is a shitty monopoly, so there's a lot of incentives for people to keep their trap shut about things like this.

Also, they're into woke shite, very woke shite.

The only FTM performer I know of really is Buck Angel, who from interviews seems engaging, friendly, and surprisingly open to TERFery

This is the exception, not the rule.

There's three which comes to mind when speaking about this subject: Noah, Luke Hudson and Trip Richards.

The first a literal example of yaoi-sick girl, which is funny considering she looks like a 13 year old "soft-boi". Also, her tweets makes me want to bang my head against a wall for 20 minutes.

The second one I know little about, but she is the way-to-go performer studios go to when they need to virtue signal about TRA talking points.

The third is an interesting case: like Buck, she went for the masculine, roided out look, but her voice sounds like a mixture of Donald Duck and a Muppet. She admited once that she doesn't have sex with men, or sex at all, outside of porn shoots, which is very revealing.

She is also known to be a really unpleasant person, even by TRA standards.

[–]Virginia_Plain 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

See I think that's one of the most depressing things about sex work, how little the people involved actually enjoy what they are doing.

[–]Rag3 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Trans people have always been part of the gay community.

If this is true, why do we have to center and celebrate them all the time? 👀

It seems like some cis gay men think they did all this work and fighting for our rights by themselves. That’s simply not true

Oh piss off. Lesbians fought too. Not spicy straights.

[–]Beryl 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Woman moment

[–]DimDroog 10 insightful - 9 fun10 insightful - 8 fun11 insightful - 9 fun -  (3 children)

The author of the piece

Frank is a fat, gay, queer, slutty, loud-mouth, Italian-Canadian, queer rights advocate who moved to Amsterdam in 2018 to complete his degree in Sociology and Sexual Diversity Studies at the UvA.

Sigh.

A few millennia ago, Franks queer ass would have been gored by a *auroch, but sadly, we are stuck with him, and Mr. Wannabe Gay Germany.

*(pronounced Or Rucks roughly)

[–]RiverSong 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Whatever happened to Prince Chiyo? Did she win Mr. Gay UK or whatever contest it was that she entered with her glued on beard? I don't doubt all the people cheering her on voted for her, and called her an inspiration to all other gay men.

[–]artetolife 16 insightful - 9 fun16 insightful - 8 fun17 insightful - 9 fun -  (1 child)

The contest she entered when it was all over the news was cancelled because of covid. She re-entered this year and lost, lol.

[–]RiverSong 12 insightful - 12 fun12 insightful - 11 fun13 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

How transphobic.

[–]Rag3 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wasn’t there already a straight woman who tried to win a Mr Gay universe contest or something? 🤔

Edit: mentioned below: Prince Chiyo

[–]our_team_is_winning 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

So gay men are really turned on by the chest scars where her breasts were sliced off?

The author's bio:

FRANK COLOSIMO AUTHOR Frank is a fat, gay, queer, slutty, loud-mouth, Italian-Canadian, queer rights advocate who moved to Amsterdam in 2018 to complete his degree in Sociology and Sexual Diversity Studies at the UvA. At Mister B he works in marketing and communications while leading a diversity, equity, and inclusion program. For fun, he enjoys critiquing films, writing, making his friends laugh, and singing poorly at karaoke. And if you say or do something shitty, don’t be surprised if he calls you out on it.

Can I call him out on all the shitty stuff in his bio? He seems to have forgotten his pronouns.

[–]fr_bandersnatchghey... 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

For me, more diversity simply means more freedom and less restriction due to outdated social norms.

"Outdated social norms" like homosexuality?

The porn industry is literaly one of the most astroturfed things there is, as only a few companies own basically the entire market. This means that hey can push whatever shit they want regardless of actual demand.

My theory on all that: It seems that many (most?) mainstream gay porn performers do their token FTM scene. Get it in the books. Check it off the list. And then get back to business as usual. These are people who, at the end of the day, have to treat sex from a professional standpoint and work with scenarios or partners they aren't always legitimately enthused about. Because it's what they're paid to do. You pop the pill and think of England. And provide whatever soundbites are needed to market it.