I mean for women non penetrative is way more orgasmic than penetrative. But we live in such phallocentric world.

Always found homophobic how gay male sexuality is reduced to anal as that was all about it. I mean, I don't think there is nothing wrong with doing anal, anything has right to do anything with their bodies and for male receiving anal makes more sense due to prostate, but it is wrong to think gay male sexuality is all about it or that a gay dude must to like anal by definition.

But this is not different than people thinking we lesbians need dildos. Or when I read that lesbians only can lose virginity by using a dildo. Aside from the fact virginity is a stupid concpt and that's not possible to lose something which doesn't exist, the invalidation of female on female sexuality based on high phallocentrism and sexism really did upset me. Now not anymore cause it isnt worth to get mad about over bs, but it is quite disgusting the level of phallocentrism in this world.