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[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Going through the post history and I found this. I think it's obvious that she (a) is a girl, (b) is from a Muslim family so she had the fucked up sex roles for girls thrust on her EXTRA hard, (c) doesn't want to be a girl/woman because her mom is an asshole and doesn't want to be a boy/man because her dad is a creep, and (d) has been groomed into hating her body by her heterosexual parents.

I feel bad for her. This is why I don't trust a lot of parents who go around claiming that their kid has ROGD and act like they're a fucking victim or that it sprung out of nowhere.

[–]reluctant_commenter 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is why I don't trust a lot of parents who go around claiming that their kid has ROGD and act like they're a fucking victim or that it sprung out of nowhere.

COMPLETELY agree. Was watching a video by Sasha Ayad talking about how a lot of the detransitioners she talked to said that they had a lot of issues going on in their family that contributed to their mental health issues, yet their parents denied that there was anything wrong. I think this is an underemphasized point. And sometimes people want to just blame "society" for girls having shame over their bodies but you know what, sometimes parents teach them to be ashamed, too.