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[–][deleted] 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (3 children)

This person does represent the "trying to figure things out" young bisexual. Unfortunately, she is learning in the age of labels and virtue signaling, so she isn't seeking out what bisexuals experience, she is trying to fit herself into a gender/inclusive box, and also "trans".

It's normal for young Bi women to experiment and get hella hard crushes on other women despite actually being more of a Kinsey 1 or 2. It's part of us figuring out whether we're homosexual, straight, or bisexual.

Bisexuality is the only "sexuality is a spectrum" one out there, and the label of "bi" doesn't say where we are on the spectrum. Our foundation is "we are attracted to both sexes", and the spectrum is how much or little, and why/how.

She did say this, "I'm a bit disappointed about my attraction to women disappearing like this." That makes me think she's more of a Kinsey 4, maybe even leaning towards Kinsey 5/FEBfem. Her attraction has changed since she took male hormones though, which speaks to what hormones and pharmaceuticals can do to disrupt a human.

[–]stunaep 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (2 children)

[–]motss-pb 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (1 child)

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