I know this might not be the same but I think it's similar. This story actually comes courtesy of my life from my mom. I love my mom to pieces honestly she's an amazing woman. But like all moms she's got her flaws. One of her flaws is that she's a huge bleeding heart liberal. Like we're talking to the point where not being attracted to someone and being rude to get your point across is racist. Anyways thanks to the internet I've learned I'm not attracted to 3 major third world religious ideologies and people from that area. No biggie that's life. There are people that aren't attracted to fat people that's life. We deal. Not according to my mom at one time. Nope I was being very racist for not being attracted to them. Like da hell? Having an attraction and having legitimate reasons why you won't deal with someone kindly in a social situation is racist?(sadly rudeness and abuse are sometimes the only way to get your point across) da hell? You can't force someone to date you gas lighting, throwing out words like phobic, bigot, etc wins nothing. Eventually mom finally backed off and we dropped the issue. Although in a twist I won't tell her she finally got why I avoid the men I talked about like the plague. But off topic. Like someone further down in that thread said what is it with people and their complete lack of boundaries.