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[–]wendyokoopa1 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I wish people would stop lumping autism in with these narcissists. Sure we struggle with understanding people and their emotional needs but most of these people are socially, emotionally bankrupt narcissists. Not autistic or aspegerian.

[–]JulienMayfair 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I get what you're saying, and I apologize if I caused offense; however, statistically, there is an unusually high percentage of people with high-functioning autism who are getting drawn into trans ideology.

And I've seen my friend with autism do all sorts of intellectual reasoning about other people's behavior that sounds logical the way he lays it out, but I listen to it with a sinking feeling, knowing that he's coming to all the wrong conclusions because even though he's very smart in many ways, he doesn't have an intuitive understanding of how other people's feelings work. It often ends in tragic situations for him.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think it might also be the prevalence of co-mordbidities in autistic people. Most have some kind of mental depression or anxiety (I certainly do), not to mention social isolation that may be as a result of the co-morbidities or because of our difference in behaviour.

As a result, when they see how accepted and championed trans people are, and add in a dash of autistic gender-nonconformism due to not having an inherent feeling of what is expected of X or Y gender, they're easily sucked into the ideology since they think they'll finally belong somewhere and understand themselves better.

I personally thought I was genderfluid and demisexual for a hot minute in high school, and even thought at one point that I was a trans man because I preferred to wear men's clothing, which is generally more comfortable than womenswear. I fear for the me who might've been born ten years later, where I would've told that yes indeed I was a transman and I would've damaged myself beyond repair.

[–]wendyokoopa1 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I can understand all that and yeah everything you're saying does break my Heart. The brain washing of high functioning seems plausible as I've under gone brain washing to another degree. So I can understand all that. It's just frustrating.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's not an attack on autism or autistic people.

[–]wendyokoopa1 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No I got brain washed in my 20s to hate my mom. Autistics can sadly be very trusting and naive.