The conflation and appropriation of terms used by different sects of same-sex attracted people (stone for lesbians, tops for gay men) fucking sends me.

That was the part that stood out to me. It's perfectly normal for young gay men to slowly and clumsily learn the ropes by being introduced to lingo and "etiquette", but here we can see a characteristic mixture of complete ignorance and grandiose confidence that is so illustrative of the fact that these women are mere interlopers - charlatans whose masks will slip from time to time revealing the phony behind. Like someone who fakes an accent to pretend like they are from another place, only to inevitably commit a blunder that leaves them exposed.