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[–][deleted] 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I want to enjoy casual sex.

Good luck with that then. Despite what liberal feminists want you to believe, most women don't actually enjoy casual sex.

[–]reluctant_commenter 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Just curious, do you know any good resources where I can read more about this? I've never been interested in casual sex myself (and am a woman), but many of my straight female friends have defended casual sex to me, so I've always thought I was just a weirdo.

[–]book_hoarder 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/women-less-likely-to-orgasm-from-casual-sex-hookup/

According to studies done on the subject, women are far less likely to orgasm during casual sex. As it turns out, men don't put much effort into pleasuring a woman they have no emotional investment in. Your straight friends are probably not coming during their casual encounters and just trying to make themselves feel better about being used.

[–]reluctant_commenter 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks for the link, much appreciated. That makes a lot of sense. I still find it so surprising, though, how at odds it is with how much some straight women praise casual sex regardless of that!