Indoctrination / DoublethinkWelcome to the gay community you wanted to be here so badly....

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[–]Criticallacitirc 30 insightful - 19 fun30 insightful - 18 fun31 insightful - 19 fun -  (3 children)

Sorry to all the ladies in the sub, but it's so obvious that this was written by a woman.

"I just wanted to cuddle, but he got his cum all over me" lollllll

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 16 insightful - 15 fun16 insightful - 14 fun17 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

I mean, isn't that the best part of cuddling?

[–]SerpensInferna 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh my god, it totally was. Story of our lives. She has been lied to. Male biology reigns supreme.

[–]Alagra 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

No need to even be sorry, it so was.

[–][deleted] 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

I want to enjoy casual sex.

Good luck with that then. Despite what liberal feminists want you to believe, most women don't actually enjoy casual sex.

[–]SerpensInferna 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Hook up culture in no way benefits the great majority of women.

[–]wendyokoopa1 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No it doesn't. It's disgusting and can make you feel emotional invalidated. Much like my last relationship at times

[–]wendyokoopa1 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm a woman and can verify that I at times find nothing fulfilling about casual and that's regardless of it being a sympathy hook up.

[–]book_hoarder 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This. "Sex-positive feminism" is the biggest scam ever sold to women. If "sex positivity" is virtually indistinguishable from your average man's pornographic fantasy, then it is neither feminist nor likely to be very enjoyable for the woman.

[–]reluctant_commenter 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Just curious, do you know any good resources where I can read more about this? I've never been interested in casual sex myself (and am a woman), but many of my straight female friends have defended casual sex to me, so I've always thought I was just a weirdo.

[–]book_hoarder 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/women-less-likely-to-orgasm-from-casual-sex-hookup/

According to studies done on the subject, women are far less likely to orgasm during casual sex. As it turns out, men don't put much effort into pleasuring a woman they have no emotional investment in. Your straight friends are probably not coming during their casual encounters and just trying to make themselves feel better about being used.

[–]reluctant_commenter 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks for the link, much appreciated. That makes a lot of sense. I still find it so surprising, though, how at odds it is with how much some straight women praise casual sex regardless of that!

[–]Femaleisnthateful 26 insightful - 5 fun26 insightful - 4 fun27 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

WTF did I just read? Are the guys she's meeting supposed to be gay? It's so gross to read someone referring to their 'front hole'. Even kids can learn the proper words for body parts.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's in the same vein as "top" and "bottom" surgery. Euphemisms meant to obscure reality.

[–][deleted] 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

This is really sad, while also infuriating (on behalf of our gay bros).

Her experience is what women who are into men go through until we learn about boundaries and to stand up for our own needs. We all deserve respect and mutual pleasure and understanding, and young women and young men who are growing up have a tough time sorting that shit out together. Her lack of a backbone is acting as a beacon signal for harm and being taken advantage of.

She's deluded herself into thinking that her "ships" of gay bros will magically change her experience with men, but it doesn't. Gay boys and men still have to learn their own way with each other, and gay men don't exist to validate women's emotional damage and needs.

She's not meeting gay dudes. She's meeting bi or straight dudes who are predators and taking advantage of a desperate woman. And she doesn't even realize it. She's blaming gay men even though they aren't the problem(s) at all.

[–]SerpensInferna 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Can I just say, that those who aren't predators, vastly underestimate the absolute accuracy of the radar of predators. They can smell the vulnerable from miles away.

[–]tu_jode_mucho 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is absolutely true. I have a friend who has had a lot of fucked up things happen to her and literally every time I'm with her in public creepy men constantly come out of the woodwork and beeline to her. Sometimes I have no idea where these guys even came from. I have another friend that is an absolute bombshell, like a super model but not super skinny (it's quite a shame she's straight tbh). As far as I know she doesn't have a sexually traumatic past and men approach her a lot but not nearly as aggressively and frequently as friend #1. Predators can smell weakness a mile away and hardly ever pass up an opportunity to pounce.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 18 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Welcome to the most worst parts of being a gay man. I'm glad I left that shit behind in my 20s. Why would you even want to do that if you had other options?

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sounds like she has poor judgement and is getting hit on by straight guys, neither of which is any surprise