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[–]book_hoarder 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

The fact of the matter is, saying you have a genital preference is implying all trans people are the same, their genitals are the same, and that you have evidently experienced every fake dick out there and know you don't like them.

I have never tried out any dick ever and I can safely say that I don't like them. I have also never had anything up my ass or participated in an orgy, but I can safely say I never want to do those things either. People are allowed to decide for themselves what sexual partners they want and what sexual activities they feel comfortable with without "trying them out" first. It's called having boundaries.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah; people don't just go around randomly trying sexual experiences-- that's what ATTRACTION is for! It's how you know whether you even want to "try" something, or someone. It, or they, appeal to you. And even so, you may find out that what (or who) seemed genuinely attractive to you initially isn't when the proverbial rubber meets the road. But if you were NEVER into even the idea of it/them? This is the "not for me" signal. And it's all that anyone needs.

[–]book_hoarder 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. I don't have to try out every variety of sexual partner and sexual act out there, and potentially open myself up to traumatic experiences, just to know what I like. Sex is extremely personal and can be extremely invasive. If you are not 100% comfortable with the sex you are having before you have it, you probably shouldn't be having it.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Well said. It's like, "No, I don't need no sample to take home with me- thank you very much. I could already smell your brand's perfume/cologne all the way over there; And I didn't like it."