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[–]book_hoarder 40 insightful - 3 fun40 insightful - 2 fun41 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

"Nobody is that gay" is a phrase that passes my lips far too often

I'm sure it is, you fucking homophobe.

Gay men can and should appreciate women if for no other reasons than because it's biological.

One can "appreciate" something without wanting to fuck it. Also, did this fucker really just say that gay men should be attracted to women because it's "natural"??? That is literal God-tier homophobia right there.

Your desire of things that pleasure you is universal

And some people don't get pleasure from being with a woman. Case fucking closed.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 10 insightful - 20 fun10 insightful - 19 fun11 insightful - 20 fun -  (2 children)

One can "appreciate" something without wanting to fuck it.

I went to an exhibition of Fabergé eggs the other day. There was only one that I wanted to put my dick into.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 36 insightful - 2 fun36 insightful - 1 fun37 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

God the crazy amount of homophobia

[–]hufflepuff-poet 34 insightful - 2 fun34 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Just say you think being gay is a disgusting lifestyle choice and go. So many words to justify the most blatant homophobia, all while claiming to be "one of us". 🥴🤢

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 32 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 2 fun -  (11 children)

More and more we're being exposed to the fact that there are absolutely bi men who label themselves as gay just like there are bi women who label themselves as lesbian.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 21 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

yep and if you call them out on it, they double down.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I don't understand the hatred people have for being bisexual and the need to play at being gay or straight. It's ok to be bisexual, it's natural, normal and nothing to be ashamed of. Be honest about it so you can create an actual bi community of people who understand your attraction to both sexes and you can share your experiences with instead of trying to push your bisexuality onto monosexuals and our spaces.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I don't understand the hatred people have for being bisexual and the need to play at being gay or straight. It's ok to be bisexual, it's natural, normal and nothing to be ashamed of.

While I'm certainly glad that you feel this way... most people don't. And since it's the default attitude, that includes most bisexuals.

We get the same message as everybody else, you know? Not just that bisexuality is a negative thing (confusion, immaturity, wishy-washiness, sluttiness, a phase, a fad, a lie, etc. etc.), but the reason why it's a negative thing; what all these disparaging/dismissive characterizations come down to-- the assumption that there is no such thing. That bisexuality doesn't even exist.

Which is how we end up with bisexual people who call themselves gay or straight. Because they really believe that they are. There's no third option, after all. And that way lies "lesbians who like dick/gay men who like pussy"... which isn't good for ANY of us :(

[–]reluctant_commenter 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hear you. I think homosexual people need to do a better job of including bisexuality in conversations about same-sex rights and issues. It is its own legitimate thing, and it has its own set of unique experiences. (This is part of why I am more supportive of LGB Alliance than I am of LGN.)

Which is how we end up with bisexual people who call themselves gay or straight. Because they really believe that they are. There's no third option, after all. And that way lies "lesbians who like dick/gay men who like pussy"... which isn't good for ANY of us :(

Yup exactly. It is in everyone's best interest to call out bisexual erasure when it happens! That does affect L/G people, whether we take the time to call it out or not.

[–]reluctant_commenter 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

And there are straight men and women who call themselves gay/lesbian. And straight people who say they're bisexual but have no same-sex interest. I've met people like this IRL; the cognitive dissonance is staggering to witness.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

the fake bis are a old phenomenon. Like usually young girls wanting to be cool. Or they might think they would be into trying to have sex with a woman, so this makes them bi, except they're not have any real same sex attraction.

[–]reluctant_commenter 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, exactly. That is literally what people say on Tumblr, that "if you could hypothetically be into a person of the same gender/sex, even though you're not, then you're bisexual" lol I could hypothetically turn into a chicken and fly off into the sunset but that's not gonna happen for multiple reasons.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

You're funny, I like funny girls, especially when I'm insomniac lol

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Aw, thanks Elvira :)

[–]julesburm1891 21 insightful - 12 fun21 insightful - 11 fun22 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

Ah, my favorite TQ+ talking point: if you aren’t into transmen, you’re a misogynist, but transmen are 100% men no different from actual men.

[–]Rosefield 21 insightful - 8 fun21 insightful - 7 fun22 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Urge to vomit is rising

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Fuck their homophobic straight and bi arses. No offence to the bi people here who don’t think that way.

[–]Uranian 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

VALIDATE ME OR I DIE!!!! Narcissists with terrible personalities.

[–]artetolife 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

#justbisexualthings

They can barely contain their contempt for us and then wonder why they aren't included in everything.

[–]reluctant_commenter 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Who, bisexuals? I dunno... the T and Q are leading this gravy train, not the B.

I think a lot of people who say "I'm bisexual, I'm so openminded!1!1!" are just LARPing straight people who don't know what bisexual means, either.

[–]Sapphicatalyst 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

So these people insist on calling themselves gay instead of bi, but then shit all over gays for not being bi. Fucking homophobes.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Wow that just kept going huh

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah-- verbal diarrhea at its finest!

[–]serf_n_terfStraight Ally - Surf’s up! 🏄‍♀️ 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Homophobia and narcissism came to mind while reading that thread. These people are going to grow up and realize they shat their lives away.

[–]DimDroog 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

"Hi trans person here" in the thread.

AS IF WE COULD EVER,EVER, FORGET THE FACT YOU EXIST!!

The homophobia there is insane.

"Nobody is that gay".

Yes, yes they are.

[–]Mikulbleu 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Its like they just assume everyone is constantly having casual sex. They just cannot fathom that people have boundaries and don’t throw their bodies at any stranger willing to fuck them

[–]HereStill 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"yes its called being bi or a decent human"

This is really all you need to look at to see their entire thought process: Sexuality is no longer the physical, it's some moral thing in their hearts, and of course to Exclude others from that is morally wrong. Of Course us mean gays are just as bad as the mean straights, discriminating against people for their body parts. Of Course liking someone means you'd also fuck them, and if you don't like a trans person then you're bigoted against All trans people!

...I really hate it here.

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