ColonizationHasn't even started T yet and your bf is gay???? WTF either he's bi or your delusional thinking he's gay

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[–]DrMantisToboggan 21 insightful - 5 fun21 insightful - 4 fun22 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

My husband fucks me in my vagina, but now it's in a totally gay way. Another one of the "straight to gay" couples.

[–][deleted] 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I assume this is a similar situation to when men marry women, come out as trans, then demand their wives identify as lesbians.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

https://media.giphy.com/media/nSNsBZj5xhIxG/giphy.gif

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

There’s gay Trans poc subs and we can’t have one lgb one.

[–]reluctant_commenter 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know. :( It's so ridiculously unfair. From the movement of "inclusivity." Miss me with those lies, thanks.

[–]julesburm1891 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

But when we leave town to go see friends or go to the beach, we’re forced to go through Trump country and things get dicey. As a “WOC,” I’ve done my best to play the “submissive quiet wife”

My partner and I grew up in two different regions of the USA. However, we both grew up in very rural areas that overwhelmingly voted for Trump. We now live in a suburb where literally over 80% of the town voted for Trump. Between our home and frequently going to visit our parents, we have never encountered homophobic hate. In fact, people have been nothing but kind to us. (We have, however, been called slurs and harassed in the blue city where we both work.)

It’s baffling that OP chooses to build people she’s clearly never spent time with into bogeymen for a problem she is never going to encounter. It’s even more bizarre that she’s so worried people will judge her for being Hispanic or “gay,” yet she’s apparently never once considered she’s unfairly prejudiced to roughly half the nation.

[–]fuck_reddit 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yep, I had the exact same experience. Go to the most red states in the country with my fiancé and have no problem, walked hand in hand with my bf in the center of a blue city and got called a f****t in under ten minutes.

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you have had that happen to you! That is a really interesting pattern, though... Why do you think you've gotten more harassment in the city?

[–]julesburm1891 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

My partner and I have only gotten it once together and it was some white guys shouting at us. We have both gotten it separately a few times at work. I used to work (and she still does) in a poor, African American neighborhood. Tbh, I don’t know if it’s a class thing or a race thing, but everyone who has name-called or made fun of us has been from that community.

[–]reluctant_commenter 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Hope you are both doing well!!

[–]Rag3 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

She clearly has a gay soul u/Hannibalboy93 /s

As a “WOC”, I’ve done my best to play the “submissive quiet wife” who lets my husband do all the talking and I don’t leave his side for a moment.

Wait. Why? No one is expecting a mestizo to act like a helpmeet.

[–]7874 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The pendulum is swinging wildly. She couldn't live with herself trying to be the perfect 1950s housewife, and now she's going to literally try to "become a man" complete with testosterone and a macho attitude.