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[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

She sounds like a theyfab. She is using you as a queer phase. She will find a cis man and start a family after she is done exploring. Her 20s is for herself.

The irony is that the girlfriend sounds more like a lesbian than the OP (who at best is a self-hating bisexual woman who prefers men).

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Honestly, the OP sounds like a straight woman to me. Yeah, I know that's beyond ridiculous-- she's got a goddamn girlfriend fer chrissakes, how can she not be gay or bi???-- but such are the times we live in :( All I hear is her distaste for femaleness, you know? And desire for maleness. No sign of attraction to the GF as-is at all. Looks to me like they got together on the basis of GF being NB (which according to trans dogma should cancel out her sex) and making noises about going the full Franken-man route. Which, to me, strongly suggests a woman who's exclusively male-attracted, and trying to remake her GF in that image.

[–]7874 10 insightful - 7 fun10 insightful - 6 fun11 insightful - 7 fun -  (2 children)

I went through her post history and found this exchange:

Random Redditor: Then what term should be used if I'm only sexually attracted to people with vaginas (completely regardless of gender)?

nose-vomit (OP): I would call that "predatory" and also "invalidating"

And these gems:

being molested did delay my transition because I became a man hating lesbian.

God the amount of mtf people who aren't attracted to ftm really bugs me. Like...how are you both trans and invalidating trans people.

I'm attracted to masculine energies

She explicitly says she's attracted to "men and non-binaries" and has dated a few other (female) trans chicks, A.K.A. "transmen" before. It seems like she's a bisexual woman attracted to masculinity.

Also bonus homophobia:

I want to dress more like a gay man but lately I've been so insecure that I dress super fucking masculine to try and at least not get misgendered constantly. Idk how to dress more gay without like...being seen as a woman. It's really frustrating. Feels like I can't win

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Feels like I can't win

The only winning move is not to play.

[–]dramasexual 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

being homosexual is inherently predatory

And the past repeats