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[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I know someone whose boyfriend decided he's a girl recently.

He has done NOTHING to prove this to anyone including the hairy chest and the five o'clock shadow and otherwise keeping his appearance exactly the same as before. I always thought he was an arrogant, whiny, snarky prick who talked down to other people. Surprise surprise. His significant other looks pained, anxious, and like she's trying to make the best of it. I didn't like him before...now I really don't like him. I see her suffering.

[–]our_team_is_winning 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I see her suffering.

You need to help her recite a line, the way an acting coach might. "You, SIR, are an asshole. Goodbye."

she's trying to make the best of it.

Maybe not even "goodbye." Maybe ESAD. Then exit.

Nothing an abuser loves more than a victim who takes the abuse. PLEASE let her leave!

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

See my other comments. As far as I know she does not have her own income. Yet.